Eugene du Toit Mediation
Compassionate, child-centred mediation for separation, divorce, and parenting matters.
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My Services
My Services
I offer mediation packages to give families clarity, predictability, and peace of mind during an already stressful time.
Before mediation begins, I conduct a brief screening and intake process to ensure mediation is appropriate and safe for everyone involved.
*The packages below are designed to give you clarity and cost certainty. If it becomes clear that your matter needs more work than the package allows, we will pause and discuss options before continuing.
Each package is designed to be fair, transparent, and aligned with South African family law. The price-range is based on the anticipated number of sessions and the time needed for drafting the agreement.
For parents who need clear, child-focused arrangements without going to court.
For parents who need clear, child-focused arrangements without going to court.
Fee: Expect to pay between R6,000 – R9,000*
Fee: Expect to pay between R6,000 – R9,000*
This package
supports parents in developing a practical, legally sound parenting plan that prioritises the best interests of their children, as required by the Children’s Act.
works best where both parents are willing to engage constructively and focus on their children’s long-term wellbeing.
What’s included:
Pre-mediation intake and suitability screening
Two to three 90-minute joint mediation sessions
Mediation of:
Care and contact arrangements
Decision-making responsibilities
Holiday and special day schedules
Draft parenting plan
One round of reasonable revisions
Guidance on referral to the Office of the Family Advocate (if required)
What’s not included:
Legal advice
Court appearances
Ongoing parenting coordination
High-conflict or unsafe matters (these are screened out)
For couples seeking a structured, dignified alternative to litigation.
For couples seeking a structured, dignified alternative to litigation.
Fee: Expect to pay between R6,000 – R10,800*
Fee: Expect to pay between R6,000 – R10,800*
This package
is designed for couples who want to resolve the core issues of divorce through mediation, with the option of legal review before agreements are finalised.
What’s included:
Screening and suitability assessment
Two to four 90-minute mediation sessions
Mediation of:
Parenting arrangements (where applicable)
Maintenance (child and/or spousal)
Basic division of assets and liabilities
Draft Memorandum of Settlement (MSA)
One round of reasonable revisions
Referral to attorneys for independent legal advice (recommended)
What’s not included:
Complex trusts, businesses, or forensic accounting
Drafting of divorce summons or pleadings
Court representation
Post-divorce disputes
For parents or former partners seeking fair, workable maintenance arrangements.
For parents or former partners seeking fair, workable maintenance arrangements.
Fee: Expect to pay between R4,200 – R7,200*
Fee: Expect to pay between R4,200 – R7,200*
This package
assists parties in resolving child and/or spousal maintenance issues in a structured and respectful environment.
is suitable for both pre- and post-divorce maintenance disputes.
What’s included:
Intake and financial disclosure guidance
One to two 90-minute mediation sessions
Mediation of maintenance contributions and payment arrangements
Draft mediated maintenance agreement
One round of reasonable revisions
What’s not included:
Maintenance court proceedings
Enforcement or variation applications
Legal representation
Pricing & Fees: Frequently Asked Questions
Pricing & Fees: Frequently Asked Questions
Is mediation really more affordable than going to court?
Is mediation really more affordable than going to court?
In most cases, yes. Litigation often involves:
Multiple court appearances
Separate attorneys for each party
Ongoing legal correspondence
Mediation typically resolves issues more quickly and at a significantly lower overall cost, particularly where children are involved.
What does the package fee actually cover?
What does the package fee actually cover?
Each package clearly sets out:
The number of mediation sessions included
Preparation and follow-up work
Drafting of the relevant agreement
One round of reasonable revisions
There are no hidden charges for work that falls within the package scope.
What happens if we need more sessions than the package allows?
What happens if we need more sessions than the package allows?
Sometimes matters take longer than anticipated.
If additional sessions are needed:
This will be discussed openly before proceeding
Additional sessions are billed at R1,800 per 90-minute session
You remain in control of whether and how to continue
There are no surprise costs.
Do you offer discounts or reduced fees?
Do you offer discounts or reduced fees?
I offer limited pro bono or reduced-fee matters, primarily for parenting plan mediation, subject to availability and eligibility.
To ensure sustainability and fairness, the number of reduced-fee matters is capped.
Why do both parties pay for mediation?
Why do both parties pay for mediation?
Mediation is a neutral process. Sharing the cost supports:
Balance and fairness
Equal commitment to the process
The mediator’s independence
Cost-sharing arrangements can be discussed if needed.
Can we pay in instalments?
Can we pay in instalments?
Full payment is due upon presentation of the invoice. In very limited and exceptional cases, payment arrangements can be discussed. Payment terms are agreed upfront before mediation begins.
Why should we pay for mediation when the Family Advocate is free?
Why should we pay for mediation when the Family Advocate is free?
The Office of the Family Advocate plays an important role but often experiences:
Long delays
Limited availability
Narrow scope of intervention
Private mediation offers:
Faster scheduling
Greater flexibility
More time to work through issues thoroughly
Many families use mediation alongside Family Advocate processes.
Does the fee include legal advice?
Does the fee include legal advice?
No. As a mediator, I remain neutral and do not provide legal advice.
Parties are encouraged to seek independent legal advice before finalising any agreement. This helps ensure that agreements are informed, voluntary, and sustainable.
What if mediation doesn’t result in agreement?
What if mediation doesn’t result in agreement?
Mediation cannot guarantee agreement.
If mediation does not result in a full settlement:
You will still have had structured, facilitated discussions
Partial agreements may reduce future conflict or legal costs
You are free to pursue other options, including litigation
Fees cover the mediation process, not a guaranteed outcome.
Is mediation confidential?
Is mediation confidential?
Yes. Mediation is confidential, subject to limited legal exceptions (for example, risk of harm to a child).
Confidentiality terms are explained fully in the mediation agreement.
How do we get started?
How do we get started?
You are welcome to make contact for an initial discussion to assess suitability and explain the process. There is no charge or obligation to proceed.
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